From 8980b700a5205d744c7d556df87483d7f9e71d11 Mon Sep 17 00:00:00 2001
From: ashley <iamashley@duck.com>
Date: Sat, 11 Oct 2025 14:31:29 +0200
Subject: [PATCH] fix stuff + add stuff

---
 html/coc.ejs | 16 +++++++++++++---
 1 file changed, 13 insertions(+), 3 deletions(-)

diff --git a/html/coc.ejs b/html/coc.ejs
index b34b6b57..74c1cb6d 100644
--- a/html/coc.ejs
+++ b/html/coc.ejs
@@ -173,9 +173,19 @@
     This community welcomes humans, non-humans, otherkin, furries, robotkin, system members, and anyone else.  
   </p>
   <ul>
-    <li>Pronouns are not optional — use what someone tells you, every time.</li>    
-    <li>If you ever say “I don’t have pronouns,” congrats — you just used two. Everyone has pronouns; it’s literally how English works. Saying otherwise just means you failed grammar, not society.</li>
-    <li>Misgendering is banned, period. There are no “debates” about it.</li>
+<ul>
+  <li>Pronouns are <strong>not optional</strong> — use what someone tells you, every single time.</li>
+  <li>
+    Some people genuinely use <strong>no pronouns</strong> (or “none”) as part of their identity — that’s valid.  
+    In those cases, refer to them by name instead of using pronouns.  
+    If you’re confused, just ask politely and move on.
+  </li>
+  <li>
+    However, if you say “I don’t have pronouns” because you think grammar is oppression or you want to mock queer people — congratulations, you just outed yourself as both wrong and boring.  
+    Everyone has pronouns in language; respecting others isn’t optional, and grammar isn’t a battlefield.
+  </li>
+</ul>
+     <li>Misgendering is banned, period. There are no “debates” about it.</li>
     <li>Dehumanizing someone for being otherkin, furry, or robotkin will get you banned faster than you can say “tolerance.”</li>
     <li>If you think these identities are “cringe” or “weird,” you’re free to go touch grass and scream into a void instead.</li>
   </ul>